Posts, in order

“Rebellion Just By Existing - by River” on Substack, in order.
My suggestion is to read them in the order they were written, starting with Post 1 (it’s gonna make a lot more sense that way), as quickly or as slowly as feels good for you.

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Here are all of the posts inside of Rebellion Just By Existing (so far):

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• Read this first

• Rebellion just by existing (Post 1)

• Rules for myself, post-diagnosis life (Post 2)

• You won’t hear me say “why me” (Post 5)

• Compassion is forged (Post 6)

• 7 types of responses I see (Post 10)

• Who this is for and who it’s not for

• Red flags for me (Post 15)

• DMV companions vs shine-chasers (Post 23)

• I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy (Post 38)

• Plant medicine & a transmuter (Post 74)

• I love my body and my body loves me (Post 99)

• I’m the peppiest person in the cancer ward (Post 104)

• Sheeple (Post 145)

• Say Cancer (Post 202)

• 17 ways not to respond when someone says “I have cancer” (Post 209)

• How can I explain it (Post 225)

• Make of yourself a light (Post 254)

• Moss green (Post 282)

• Feminine (Post 283)

• Grace (Post 284)

• Cumulative toxicity (Post 291)

• Birds (Post 311)

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Break from the story, just cancer:

• Cancer Playlist

• What I’d tell someone who cares

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1. Diagnosis & Shock

• Read this first

• Rebellion just by existing (Post 1)

• Rules for myself, post-diagnosis life (Post 2)

• Who I’m looking to (Post 3)

• You won’t hear me say “why me” (Post 5)

• Compassion is forged (Post 6)

• I’m a healthy person who has cancer (Post 8)

• I see you’ve been carrying 200 lbs (Post 9)

• 7 types of responses I see (Post 10)

• Who this is for and who it’s not for

• My favorite responses so far (Post 11)

• Don’t use plastic, you’ll get cancer (Post 12)

• Keep it in the day (Post 13)

• While you’re still alive (Post 14)

• Red flags for me (Post 15)

• See who’s watching with you (Post 16)

• A possible side effect (Post 17)

• It’s probably not that funny (Post 18)

• More than anyone should ask (Post 19)

• A very bad poem (Post 20)

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2. Medical Grind & Spiritual Fallout

• It’s nice to have a friend (Post 22)

• DMV companions vs shine-chasers (Post 23)

• Not a safe place (Post 24)

• On aging (Post 25)

• My dad sets an alarm (Post 26)

• I know I’ll never understand. But I want to try to understand (Post 27)

• This is not my fight song (Post 28)

• Harvesting (Post 29)

• I made friends with a fly (Post 30)

• No food or water until 1pm (Post 31)

• Wonderful sensory experiences of being human (Post 32)

• 1200 lbs (Post 33)

• Medicine is a team sport (Post 34)

• I mean, I understand. But I also don’t (Post 35)

• I wasn’t expecting this (Post 36)

• Frog in boiling water (Post 37)

• I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy (Post 38)

• It’s sunny today (Post 39)

• Brilliant, but evil (Post 40)

• Sober LSD (Post 41)

• And I’m trying to be nice, but (Post 42)

• What if (Post 43)

• I read something (Post 44)

• Challenge convention, change the world (Post 45)

• Other people’s diarrhea (Post 46)

• Pathological demand avoidance (Post 47)

• People like you (Post 48)

• I’m not going to choose (Post 49)

• My last night of freedom (Post 50)

• Behind-the-scenes, in a day (Post 52)

• Breaking up (Post 53)

• Pay attention (Post 54)

• You’re doing well (Post 55)

• Barnum statements (Post 57)

• The first chemo treatment (Post 59)

• I will not regret (Post 60)

• Did Beth have dreams? (Post 63)

• Not this (Post 65)

• My least favorite activity (Post 66)

• James Van Der Beek (Post 68)

• Childlike empress (Post 69)

• Rich (Post 70)

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3. Chemo & Transmuting Trauma into Hilarity

• Entering: The Post (Post 71)

• Death to the people pleaser (Post 72)

• Mr. Empathy and Dr. IDGAF (Post 73)

• Plant medicine & a transmuter (Post 74)

• To save the rest of you (Post 76)

• On steroids (Post 78)

• What I wish I’d known before I got cancer (Post 79)

• A lot of time to spend in the world (Post 80)

• That escalated quickly (Post 81)

• I have a plan (Post 82)

• A mirror (Post 85)

• OnlyFans for measles (Post 86)

• A linear, beginning narrative (Post 87)

• What I’d tell someone who cares (Post 88)

• It’s the steroid (Post 89)

• Waiting (Post 91)

• It’s okay to be comfortable (Post 92)

• Welcome to Substack (Post 93)

• Bodies changing (Post 94)

• I shared the blog (Post 95)

• Thank you so much for subscribing

• I’m not even mad at you (Post 96)

• A new experience (Post 97)

• It’s always been this way (Post 98)

• I love my body and my body loves me (Post 99)

• A sober drunken night (Post 100)

• Whoops, I’m using Substack wrong

• My mom doesn’t want me to share this (Post 101)

• What I was expecting (Post 102)

• Chemo adventures (Post 103)

• I’m the peppiest person in the cancer ward (Post 104)

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4. Strand By Strand

• Prepping for the port (Post 105)

• Sullivan’s Crossing (Post 106)

• Okay, well, you’re still funny (Post 107)

• You expect too much from people (Post 108)

• Collecting stickers (Post 109)

• It wasn’t the steroid (Post 110)

• What should we call her (Post 111)

• How are you TODAY? (Post 112)

• Red-leaved trees (Post 114)

• Hello, and welcome to the rebellion

• I don’t want to know (Post 117)

• When a platitude isn’t a platitude (Post 120)

• F is for fentanyl (Post 121)

• Let’s you and me (Post 122)

• But what if it’s all b… (Post 123)

• Becoming winter (Post 124)

• How do you like to love and be loved (Post 125)

• Wedding prep (Post 126)

• A meteorite (Post 127)

• Ericksonian (Post 128)

• 1-3 (Post 129)

• Carebear love (Post 130)

• When you put it that way (Post 131)

• You sound upbeat (Post 132)

• It’s not Mexico, but (Post 133)

• My last nerve (Post 134)

• You’re loved (Post 135)

• The Bypath (Post 136)

• Idgaf about your love and light (Post 139)

• I won’t let read this blog (Post 140)

• Honest (Post 144)

• Sheeple (Post 145)*

• The road from Eponine to Fantine (Post 146)

• Thinking of you (Post 147)

• Fuck your drama triangle (Post 150)

• It’s the Lupron (Post 151)

• Cancer is a parasite cleanse (Post 152)

• Playing the violin on the Titanic (Post 153)

• Waking up (Post 154)

• Every miracle is big (Post 155)

• Is that past? (Post 158)

• Permanent (Post 159)

• Intense catalyst (Post 161)

• Morphing (Post 162)

• Things I shouldn’t say (Post 163)

• Strand by strand (Post 164)

• Appreciated (Post 166)

• I try to remember (Post 167)

• Disability (Post 168)

• Odd ways we handle stress (Post 169)

• I’m there for you (Post 170)

• Holding on (Post 172)

• I didn’t forget (Post 173)

• Chemo brain (Post 174)

• I miss the moon (Post 175)

• What if I’m not the best (Post 176)

• Change of plans, again (Post 178)

• A Different Vision Quest (Post 179)

• Strong (Post 180)

• Kesha (Post 182)

• No day but today (Post 183)

• Two different realities (Post 184)

• Chumbawamba (Post 185)

• Japanese prison (Post 186)

• Up close (Post 187)

• I have a doctor now (Post 188)

• Regenerative (Post 189)

• A linear narrative, part 2 (Post 190)

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5. Phoenix Rising

• Opalite (Post 191)

• This is TMI (Post 192)

• Why do you write like you’re running out of time (Post 193)

• Very close (Post 194)

• The Smiths (Post 195)

• Love that for you (Post 196)

• New friends (Post 197)

• Adventures can’t all be winners (Post 198)

• The vomiting post (Post 199)

• Could be any body (Post 200)

• I’m done (Post 201)

• Say Cancer (Post 202)

• Sadderday (Post 203)

• From the ashes (Post 204)

• Luckdragon (Post 205)

• What chemo killed (Post 206)

• Parasocial entitlement (Post 207)

• Tilt-a-whirl (Post 208)

• 17 ways not to respond when someone says “I have cancer” (Post 209)

• Not your job (Post 210)

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6. Dancing with the Red Devil

• Things that did not cause my cancer (Post 211)

• Is it okay (Post 212)

• I’m grateful (Post 213)

• Suspended limbo (Post 214)

• Olive oil green (Post 215)

• Cute turtle (Post 216)

• Playing it safe (Post 217)

• I miss you and that’s embarrassing (Post 218)

• Always (Post 219)

• Resilient (Post 220)

• Stay (Post 221)

• It’s probably not great to normalize trauma (Post 222)

• An old joke (Post 223)

• Dancing with the devil (Post 224)

• How can I explain it (Post 225)

• The Happiest Thanksgiving (Post 226)

• Charlie Brown (Post 227)

• Pawprint (Post 228)

• Chemo Swings (Post 229)

• Wigs and caps (Post 230)

• Ambiguous grief (Post 231)

• There is a light that never goes out (Post 232)

• Warrior (Post 233)

• Tox (Post 234)

• Christmas cards (Post 238)

• Pharmacology (Post 240)

• Christmas Lullaby (Post 241)

• Raw (Post 244)

• I’m a private person (Post 246)

• Torture for cancer patients (Post 249)

• Sensitive on steroids (Post 250)

• Lupron-grumpy (Post 253)

• Make of yourself a light (Post 254)

• Mirrorball (Post 255)

• All my fears coming true (Post 256)

• Green flags (Post 262)

• Avalanche (Post 263)

• Kind (Post 265)

• I lied (Post 266)

• Ideal time for this (Post 267)

• Love it! (Post 268)

• How can we get this to Jennifer Hudson (Post 269)

• High (Post 270)

• Dopamine suppression (Post 272)

• The Nothing (Post 274)

• Chemo TMI, part 2 (Post 275)

• Dehumanization (Post 276)

• Cruel (Post 277)

• My hope for you (Post 278)

• Plant (Post 279)

• Nothing (Post 280)

• Manic (Post 281)

• Moss green (Post 282)

• Feminine (Post 283)

• Grace (Post 284)

• Capricorn season (Post 285)

• Anger is bad (Post 286)

• Blessed (Post 288)

• Not an ally (Post 289)

• Something is not right (Post 290)

• Cumulative toxicity (Post 291)

• The Neverending Story (Post 292)

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7. Late in the Regimen

• ​Tattoos and fishnets (Post 293)

• I went to the gym (Post 294)

• It’s the chemicals (Post 295)

• Late in the regimen (Post 295b)

• New Year’s Eve (Post 296)

• Happy New Year (Post 297)

• I count the minutes (Post 298)

• It’s anointing me (Post 299)

• Chemo hats (Post 300)

• Warheads (Post 301)

• Stay (Post 302)

• I used to run (Post 303)

• Linear update, pt 3 (Post 304)

• You never know, I guess (Post 305)

• Dream come true (Post 306)

• Chemo rollercoaster

• Anomaly (Post 308)

• Dear Haters (Post 309)

• Believe (Post 310)

• Birds (Post 311)

• And the winner is (Post 312)

• A hug (Post 313)

• Luproning (Post 314)

• Heaven knows (Post 315)

• Useful (Post 316)

• Orpheus (Post 317)

• Hibernate (Post 318)

• Wednesday (Post 319)

• Green-gray (Post 320)

• Vapor (Post 321)

• Downshift state (Post 322)

• Sacred (Post 323)

• Bjorkish (Post 324)

• Just in case (Post 325)

• What I Got (Post 326)

• Glitch (Post 327)

• Savior complex (Post 328)

• Funniest in the class (Post 329)

• Alien (Post 330)

• And wonder (Post 331)

• Surprise (Post 332)

• Not the last day of chemo (Post 333)

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8. Limbo State

• Limbo state (Post 334)

• Pre-grieving (Post 335)

• Die a hero (Post 336)

• Good egg (Post 337)

• The Wondrous Boat Ride (Post 338)

• And then (Post 339)

• Keep your spirits up (Post 340)

• I talked to a real friend (Post 341)

• Fragile (Post 342)

• Debriefing (Post 343)

• Trouper (Post 344)

• The C card (Post 345)

• I forgot (Post 346)

• Not my body (Post 347)

• I count luxuries (Post 348)

• No silver linings (Post 349)

• Will you still love me (Post 350)

• Punch by the Universe (Post 351)

• Evolution (Post 352)

• Mixed (Post 353)

• Curveball (Post 354)

• Broken heart (Post 355)

• Tears (Post 356)

• Linear (Post 357)

• James Van Der Beek, pt 2 (Post 358)

• Impact (Post 359)

• End of days (Post 360)

• 50:50 (Post 361)

• The Question Game (Post 362)

• Slipped (Post 363)

• The sky is white (Post 364)

• Transit (Post 365)

• In LA (Post 366)

• Oh, Calisto (Post 367)

• Finally (Post 368)

• One week (Post 369)

• Another angel (Post 370)

• Ornery (Post 371)

• Goodbye (Post 372)

• Caves (Post 373)

• Everything (Post 374)

• Smile (Post 375)

• Existential bookkeeping (Post 376)

• It’s time (Post 377)

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9. The Grind

• The night before surgery (Post 378)

• Genius and kind (Post 379)

• Bubble (Post 380)

• Silver (Post 381)

• King (Post 382)

• Blossoming (Post 383)

• One day at a time (Post 384)

• Celebrate (Post 385)

• Hi (Post 386)

• Unknow (Post 387)

• Weighted blanket (Post 388)

• Prom (Post 389)

• Rarities of rarities (Post 390)

• One last time (Post 391)

• Still here (Post 392)

• Private (Post 393)

• Constant (Post 394)

• Hope (Post 395)

• In the world (Post 396)

• Nightmares (Post 396)

• Wacky (Post 397)

• Pathology (Post 398)

• Whiplash (Post 399)

• 8 out of 10 (Post 400)

• Spaghetti at the wall (Post 401)

• Many layers (Post 402)

• Outsourcing and bypassing (Post 403)

• Access revoked (Post 404)

• Radioactive (Post 405)

• Satisfying (Post 406)

• Tenderness (Post 407)

• Better (Post 408)

• Over and over (Post 409)

• Why do I feel this good sober (Post 410)

• Go away (Post 411)

• It sucks (Post 412)

• Lupron chronicles (Post 413)

• New regimen (Post 414)

• Spring (Post 415)

• Not my story to tell (Post 416)

• Stay quiet (Post 417)

• Empirical (Post 418)

• Not Winter (Post 419)

• 8 months (Post 420)

• Casseroles (Post 421)

• Mapping (Post 422)

• Absurd (Post 423)

• A Different Kind of Human (Post 424)

• You’re not wrong (Post 425)

• With all due respect (Post 426)

• Not transparent (Post 427)

• All the good that won’t come out of me (Post 428)

• Different kinds of torture (Post 429)

• We’re running out of magnets (Post 430)

• Birthday blues (Post 431)

• Energy, yay (Post 432)

• We’re all witches (Post 433)

10. Groundhog’s Day

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